Thrive Global: Why Negotiating Boundaries Is Important

"When we encounter someone for the first time, it should be an automatic assumption they have boundaries in place to protect themselves. You should also have an established set of boundaries as well. It is an unspoken language between you and that person – whether it’s your supervisor, personal banker, or close friend – you know when to respect their boundaries.

Negotiating boundaries is an important process in relationship-building because it not only establishes trust but also maintains the peace amongst individuals you encounter.

When people are cognizant about not overstepping them, their relationship has the potential to withstand other trials and tribulations that could arise in the future.

It’s not an easy process, but it is very necessary and rewarding.

Learning about the person you are in negotiation with is as equally important as the negotiation itself, and here’s why:

-You’re able to communicate more effectively, at a level of each other’s understanding

-Allows for a smoother negotiation and setting boundaries will be a seamless process

-Your relationship will reach greater heights because you value each other’s opinions, boundaries, and style of communication

Keep in mind that you can negotiate boundaries either directly or indirectly. Use the method that works best for you.

When you have the proper strategy to set boundaries and negotiate with your partner, colleague, or client, the easier it will be for you to understand each other. Respect is a two-way street, and through negotiating boundaries, you are better prepared for the ride."

Read the full article here!

Reflection:

Would you say that you have established healthy boundaries with your family and friends?

*Honestly, I don't think I have. I'm a very gullible person and if anyone just marginally convinces me to overstep one of my boundaries, there is a high chance that I will. This is something I clearly need to work on"

#Boundaries #Relationships #Communication