2 kids, 7 years, for nothing.
Hi all, Broke up with my kids father a few days ago. We were "High school sweethearts" and have been together for nearly 8 years. He currently lives with me at my mothers house.
I was his first EVERYTHING so back when we were younger, our fights were about him talking to his "best friend" behind my back, come to find out he was tryna get with her, time went on I found his Pornhub addiction, then it was secretly flirting with cashiers at whatever shop we went to. So I mean he definitely had a commitment problem but I was so caught up on him being my first that I kept taking him back. Now fast forward a few days ago. I had a gut feeling to check his phone and the things I found...🤢 I found a photo of a random woman. We were out shopping AS A FAMILY and little did I know he took a photo of her ass. That's literally NOTHING compared to what I saw next. I found a video 🤢 Of him setting up the camera in the bathroom/shower and walking away. After a few minutes my mother walks in to have a shower 🤢🤢🤢 This man recorded my mother taking a shower. I confront him and he said the photo of the lady was "because she looked at me like she wanted me so I wanted to saver the moment, I was curious. You never look at me like that, you dont act like your attracted to me". The video he was using as revenge to post on facebook to blackmail my family? This man is out of his mind its just hard because I have his 2 kids and hes all I've ever known. Advice?
@AuntyCC
Hi,
I find it quite disturbing what hes done to be honest, putting camera equipment in a shower is a terrible thing to do. But do you know something, hes done it, you cant change that, your best off trying to forget about that, and all the other stuff hes put you through, and use that negative energy to power you through being a brilliant mother to your kids! Instead of saying the past 7 years for what? Change the angle, the past 7 years has taught me what I do and dont want in a relationship, the past 7 years have gave me 2 brilliant kids, the past 7 years I've become, older, wiser and stronger! Pow....you've got this💪👊
@Arora35 Thank you for that. My thoughts are all over the place, wanting him to come back then wanting him to leave. Just needing that confirmation that I'm doing the right thing by staying away. So thank you again 😌
