3 years wasted

I know this feeling, when you feel like you gave away years of your life for someone and it ends this way. But don't think about it as a waste, it was an experience. It needs time to ever love again. Humans aren't meant to be lonely. It might not be her and that's fine. Don't lose hope. Try to work on yourself, what can you improve about yourself. It's a tough time being single after so long, but see it as an opportunity to do everything you planned. I planned to travel with my ex, but I realised how much fun ut can be travelling by yourself or with friends.