3 years wasted
My ex broke up with me after 3 years of being together bc he says we’re not as close anymore and we’re more distant. I had felt like this before he even told me and it was because of his job. He didn’t want to fix things so all the years of us planning our future, being w him and supporting him in everything. I feel like i lost myself with him, i loved him more than i loved myself and put him first. Idk how to continue on ..
I am new to this whole reaching out on an app thing but I have gone through what you are feeling. Do you guys live together too? Or did he move out?
For me it was a five year relationship and then yeah, one day he just decided he was done and left and I was left on the floor just lost as to how it all happened out of the blue
Im so sorry you went through that as well. We were barely planning to move in together, I was already starting the process and that’s when he told me it just wasn’t the same anymore. It hurts so much bc i didn’t expect it and I gave it my all. but you are right 🥺 I deserve to be loved back. thank you so much for your kind words it means so much
I saw your post and in my mind I’m like “ Alright girl, get on my bus of adventure and put on this armor and take these tissues because we got a lot more living to do!” Go hang out with some badass people who make you feel like the center of the world xoxoxo I too tend to give 100% and then if you fail you feel like “ damn... I’m exhausted and I really gave it my all.. what did I do wrong?” But in relationships it shows that everything wasn’t balanced and the world is giving you these lessons so that the next beautiful person who you attract will see all your qualities and maybe feel relived that you give as much as they give. You got this xoxoxoxo no matter what, everything is going to be ok because you are a problem solver and have the strength to ask hard questions and go look for the answers xoxoxo
I hope you as your own beautiful, amazing, problem solving self know that that kind of love and compassion you gave that relationship is you. You are strong and you got the strength and power to keep pushing and find the kind of love you give in someone who will give it back to you. You deserve nothing less! Xoxo 🥰
