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Abusive Relationship

User Profile: teenxxvogue
teenxxvogue October 23rd, 2015

I have recently broken up from an abusive relationship. I was really struggling in the relationship and it was becoming dangerous and unhealthy. However, since I have broken up with him, he has continued to abuse me (I have to see him at school). He spreads rumours about me, constantly tells me how bad I am, tells my friends how bad he thinks I am and gets really angry at me whenever I am happy. It causes me to be really scared, upset and I am getting more and more panic attacks. I feel like i can't escape from this abuse. Any advice on how to deal? Thank you.

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User Profile: Toolie54
Toolie54 October 23rd, 2015

Hello, Ive been in a similar situation. My ex was mentally and physically abusive. I finally got the nerve to leave him, but for a year after the breakup he would text me every single day harmful and hateful name calling and slanders. I never once replied but it was taking such a mental toll on me. The best thing for me was to talk to someone. Let someone know what's going on. It's one of the hardest things to do but its so important to have someone on your side to not feel alone. There's only so much you alone can do to deal with it, tell a counselor, or tell a friend. You're never alone in situations like that. You've already done the hardest part and left. Love shouldn't hurt 💕 if you need to talk I'm here