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User Profile: brightLand6607
brightLand6607 July 25th, 2021

Good Afternoon- I am watching a friend of mine self-destruct and was hoping I could find something to talk him down: He is married, and engaging in an adulterous affair with a married lady cat her home (we all work together). This all started about a month ago and they are already taking about divorce and moving in together. They text each other 100 + times a day. We all feel sick for their spouses and family and I never would have thought he would do this. I cannot see any scenario other than disaster.

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User Profile: brightLand6607
brightLand6607 OP July 25th, 2021

* AT her home- not “cat”. #braingap

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham July 25th, 2021

@brightLand6607,

all you can do is to express to your friend how this makes you feel. As in, no judgments, no remarks like "you are self-destructing". Just your feelings, staying with your self.
As for the rest, it is none of your business, so stop thinking and making up stories about the situation and stay out of it.


User Profile: brightLand6607
brightLand6607 OP July 31st, 2021

OP here- it is indeed not my business and I appreciate that- I was just concerned for my friend. By necessity I have shut the door on this issue.