All my Fault now I dont know what to do. How to get him back after everything.
My situation is just my ex having a new girlfriend. The new girlfriend is also his ex. They stopped dating in November and we started dating in February but he did say they had hung out a few times between their break up and him meeting me. I made a few mistakes i can admit that and they are mostly the reason we broke up. He got back with her for like 2 weeks. Then wanted to try things out with me again. That lasted for about a week, my fault again my phone was off while he was away for work so he thought the worst because we were not officially back together. He then that night got back with her and i just found out they made it official and got back together. He always said she cheated and lied all the time shes 18 and hes 25 so they have an age gap. His friends after the initial break up said that I was supposed to be the one he married, they all wanted us to always be together. They apparently disapproved of his ex always. He has me blocked on email, social, media and I go straight to voicemail. He had the same for his ex when i was together with him. I am starting to feel like i was only a rebound but i also dont know if she is a rebound for me. He always said that when he was lonely he would go to someone familiar so he would no longer be lonely. I want to get back with him, but i am unsure of how because of this unique situation. I also recently found out his new girlfriend has multiple active dating profiles but i know he wont believe me if i told him because he knows i want him back. Any suggestions on what to do>
Don't kill yourself trying to see what you could've done and stop blaming yourself. If he was really into you, he would have done things to show you he cared. Sometimes it hard to face the truth but I think he may have never gotten over her and was using you as a rebound. Let him go. You don't need that kind of treatment. You deserve to be treated well.
@bucketofworms , you can ask your common friends to show these 'proofs' to him. He is 25 and I take it you are as well. You both are mature enough to make your choices. If you have to resort to making a third person look pathetic are you being mature ?
May be he will return to you but will he stay ? We don't win by making other person look small. We win by making ourselves look better .
I was with my ex for 6 years we have three children. I caught him sneaking around on the computer and I asked about it he told me it is as none of my business. I left he's since told me that he hasn't loved me in ages and wasn't happy. He's had several different women back to the house and wants me to leave our young children there. If I refuse anything he goes crazy with me and I find I'm doing things just to try and keep the peace . I am still hurting and just don't know what to do.
If a guy is cheating on you openly, it means he has lost all respect for you. Staying with him will make you lose respect for yourself.
