Am I Really That Bad?

Its weighs on me every day I used instant messenger to break up with my ex. However, I didnt want them to have a car wreck on the way home out of being distraught or harm themselves. I waited until they got home to text them and talk it through.

There were many aspects that made me super upset about him. How hed accuse all of my friends of ‘flirting or ‘trying to take me away from him and how I was guilted into doing things I didnt want to do. My pronouns as a Trans Male were thrown out the window and I wasnt respected in the slightest.

When i stopped doing anything intimate with him he told me that it wasnt fair to him and he wondered how I could be so selfish and cold. He refused to go out anywhere with me when I asked him to (meaning I would pay for everything).

Im being stalked on social media a bit by his family and few friends, its as if they are angry I did such a thing to him. When I try to explain my side to anyone Im told I ‘shouldved Respected him anyway.