Am I unloveable?
I’m sorry if this is long winded but I’m going though a very hard time. I got dumped today, because the girl I’ve been seeing still loves her ex. I was head over heals for her, and she was for me until she ran into her ex. We both had the same taste in music, art, movies, tv, humor, literally anything you can name. I went through a very traumatic breakup 2 months ago where I was belittled and made me felt like a lesser of a person which was hard to get past but I decided to try again which is when I met this girl. I didn’t see it coming out last date was so great it made me feel so great. I left the door open to say she can reach out if things don’t work out but in the meantime I’m feeling terrible about myself and why I can’t make anything last. Im 23, I’ve had several dating experiences but never been official with anyone and I feel hopeless and unloveable.
@MNBoarder29
I am sorry to hear that, I know what it feels like. I had a similar experience just yesterday. I can see you cared very much about her. Emotions can be sometimes very tricky. I think she also did not see it coming. However, when they broke up once it probably had reason so it might happen again. I just feel so bad that you need to take the pain when you finally decided to trust someone again. Everyone deserves to be loved and cared for and you are not an exception. It is not your fault that it did not last. Maybe this can help: https://www.7cups.com/breakup-advice/
@MNBoarder29 I doubt you are unloveable just didn't choose the right person don't sweat the small stuff is all I can say people who try to get back with an ex usually end up breaking up again good luck with your endeavors.