@pioneeringField6398
No, you're not wrong. You are entitled to your feelings about things that seem out of balance to you.
The only suggestion I have is to go with your gut instinct. Our gut is the most honest friend we have. If something does not feel right, it probably isn't. If something feels suspicious, it probably is suspicious. The only thing we have to go on when assessing whether to stay in a relationship is patterns of behavior. If your significant other is being secretive now, before the wedding, it would be difficult to not expect that same kind of behavior after you're married. In which case, there is a lot more paperwork involved in breaking up.
Obviously, you are the expert on you and your relationship. I am certainly not suggesting that you break things off with your partner. I am, however, suggesting that you take into account what you know about you, your partner, your relationship, and your partner's behavior, and consider what you truly want for your future. No matter what that may mean. We can love someone to the moon and back, but if something simply feels off about the way things are going in the relationship, it seldom gets better unless the other individual wants to fix things as well. Consider having a conversation with your partner about the things you indicated are bothering you, and see how you feel afterwards.
Good luck!
@pioneeringField6398 If the both of, you never set any boundaries before you moved in or got together. You have to go set them NOW! Tonight ...Marriage is forever, loyalty, a vow to God not your husband. You can break a promise to him but not before god, will cause unimaginable heart ache for the both of you, If he or you leave during. So go find a mediator and set boundaries before you loose him and he you..But if he wants to be hard headed... then you tell him your outta there, outta here. im gone..and mean it..You will be fine...Can not do it like that when your married..I say this, because sometimes we stop too soon and things can be solved.
Never make a permanent descision based on a temporary situation.