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Breaking up

User Profile: Kat33657
Kat33657 July 29th, 2016

ill be seeing him for the next 2 years what am I going to do I don't know what to do and if we get back togeather will I become the person who was depress and almost starting cutting what do I do how do u know how do u move on

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User Profile: cloudTraveler
cloudTraveler July 29th, 2016

Hey, @Kat33657

It sounds like you had a recent break-up and you're worried about how you will cope with it, especially having to see your ex in the future so much. I can imagine that you are in a turning point right now and you experience many emotions but from what you're saying I understand that you realize that the break-up was the right thing for you and on the long term this decision will help you grow and become who you want to be. I don't know any perfect receipt for moving on but allowing yourself time is very important.. try focusing on the things that make you happy, on the things that make you better and help you evolve as a person. Allow yourself to reestablish the connection with your inner self and if you make new goals and follow them coping with seeing your ex around will in time get easier. I'm not saying you won't have mixed feelings and bad days, but if you take them as something normal in the process of healing you'll be able to better manage them.

Stay strong and take care of yourself! :)