Breakup
Having a hard time coping with losing my ex we mutually broke up in November after almost 7 years and a whole life together. She’s moved on already and I havent. I cry everyday still.
@discreetLychee1653 I can understand you, the pain of being separated with your love one is a wound kept bleeding. It can not be cured easily at all, sometimes you just need to move away your attention from that thing, if you can't ,force yourself to do that. Because the depression will bring you all negative effects which nobody wants you to suffer from. Although i am not yourself, i still can say that crying is not the way to solve or overcome the problem. As a man, it's fine, completely fine to cry out and yell sometimes, but the difference between a man and a boy is that the man will clean up all his tears and continue chasing the dream with stronger body and mind, while a boy is still waiting for somebody to take away all his bitter feelings. Everybody learns things by living, nobody will accompany yourself all-life long, you need to strengthen yourself to be ready for the future on the way. No doubt, there will be tougher tasks only your path in the future, but there are definitely more interesting and meaningful things waiting for you too. Just like the process of making a sword, more hits on the iron, sharper the sword will be. Depressing all day is always not a option.