Break up
I broke up with my boyfriend today. This is my first serious relationship. I beg him to stay but he beg me to let him go because he has issues with commitment and stuff. I know i should stop it but i dont think i will know how to be okay after this. I feel like i need more closure on why he hurt me that way.☹️
@yalwieuruf
Hi! Sorry to hear about what you're going through with the breakup. It's totally normal to feel a mix of emotions right now, and it can be especially tough when it's your first serious relationship. I understand that you're looking for closure and trying to understand why things ended the way they did. However, closure is often something we have to find within ourselves. It comes from accepting the situation and giving ourselves time to heal. Unfortunately, the other person may not be able to provide the closure we seek. So in times like these, it can be helpful to write down your thoughts and feelings about the breakup.