Break up and lying
I've been in a relationship for 7 yrs. Married for 4. I've been helping my husband for 6 yrs financially. Last year he told me he wasn't getting paid at work. He didn't leave the job. And he also said his bank account was frozen because his atm card was stolen. This left me with all the finances. And with giving him money to live. Before this I was also begging him to take time off to spend with me. He was always working and never wanted to take a day off. He would also tell me he couldn't ask anyone else for help. Not his family. And I was the only one who could help him. I recently found out he was getting paid and never told me. And he was telling his family I wasn't getting paid and taking money from them. I don't think i could go back cause I wouldn't be able to trust him.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. He used you. You gave him so much and he just never gave you the respect you deserved. Don’t go back to him. He was literally stealing from you. I would even let his family know that he lied so he can’t steal from them. Hope this helps! Take care 💚
Found out today that he was gambling and drinking away the money. His family knows what he did. But they will stick with him. He still wants to know if I want to work on it. But I feel like I've been begging him to care about me and every time things are stressed he does something stupid instead of standing up and being a man
