Breakup and trauma
I suffer from an extremely narcissist person who gets mad for small things, emotionally abused me, manipulated me and finally she just stopped loving me broke my heart and wants me to be in their life as a friend so she can play with my feelings and control me. She had an ex bf before and he starts to come into our relationship to destroy my peace while she still had feelings for him and me at the same time at some point. I found out this is getting extremely toxic but I stayed just because I was afraid to lose her and out of love that I had for her. She used to be my everything and we had lots of goals and memories. We both used to care a lot for each other.
We were literally thinking to get married. She used to be my safe space and now she destroyed me into pieces.I can’t even sleep well at night or focus on things.
And now she got mad for some small reasons and started ignoring me by giving reasons and finally stopped talking with me properly and treats me very badly.
After all the healing that I’ve made last year she have ruined everything this year and now I have to heal from this person who brought me trauma and traumatised me.
Stop being friends with her. Just cut her out of your life.
@healme2 There so much you said that you I understand all too well. I hate to say this but you need to walk away from her or she'll only cause you more pain, more damage. It sucks, because as you said she was your safe space and now she's not. You trusted her and she ended up traumatizing you. Ultimately the choice is yours, but if it's anything like what I've experienced, she'll only rip you into smaller pieces and you'll have a bigger mess to deal with.