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User Profile: 01stworldview
01stworldview March 28th, 2017

Get better after a breakup

Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a
variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on.
Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to
vent, and then escalates from there. But we should be focused on getting
better and moving on.

The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your
life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers,
past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and
enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge
that can end up costing you much more.

This greatly helps you get back in the game of socializing with the opposite sex.

This also helps you build your confidence.

Don't let a break up effect your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off
with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence.

Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel
depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do
something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a
class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off.


Try to avoid drinks. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your
life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some
one. After all, drinking is for celebrating.


Try to wake up early. Get up as early as youcan and go for a walk, take a
hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting up early and exercising
can eliminate depression.

(Edited by PuppyLove13, 29/03/17- Inappropriate, offensive, has a lot of advice in it and is deogatory towards women)

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User Profile: YourFriendforever
YourFriendforever April 9th, 2017

@01stworldview Those were some of the really cool tips that you shared! Loved it.

User Profile: cosmicdreamer08
cosmicdreamer08 January 16th, 2018

@01stworldview Thank you for the tips! I know there are stages you go through after a breakup and grieving is the most important. If you don't allow yourself to do so, moving on will be difficult. Wanting revenge is never a good idea either and it won't make you feel better. The only way to feel better is to make positive choices for yourself...make yourself happy! :)

User Profile: RecoveringFlower
RecoveringFlower January 16th, 2018

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