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Broke up with first bf

User Profile: GingerGLang
GingerGLang October 31st, 2019

I'm 23 and have just broke up with my first boyfriend. We were going quite fast and I'm not sure it was right. It is all my decision and I ended it. I'm worries about being alone and that I'm throwing away something good that I'll never have a chance at again. At the same time I wouldn't have gone and triggered such pain if there wasn't something that wasn't quite right. It was my first relationship and I think I may have to be on my own for a time. He is the most amazing, loving and kind man I have ever met. I feel quite raw and I think I just want some reassurance.

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User Profile: Madaraismyspiritanimal
Madaraismyspiritanimal October 31st, 2019

@GingerGLang

That sounds really rough. I'm almost 25 and have never had a real relationship, I'm torn between being excited to see what's out there and scared that trusting people is gonna get me hurt.

So I understand how you feel like you're maybe giving up something amazing, while trying to shield yourself from harm.

I can't really reassure you about your decision, but I do share your fear and uncertainty about this subject