Can't move on
Hi, I would like advice on a past relationship. I dated a guy for about 5 months which ended in February of 2014 and I still can't get over it. We had the best connection and I know he felt the same. He would always say stuff like I feel so oddly comfortable with you and I love being with you. But he said it is bad timing and because his ex girlfriend was moving back here for him. And the last thing he said to me was he will probably regret his choice for the rest of his life.My biggest problem now is I have contacted him maybe 5 times in a year on fb and he hasn't responded. I asked him to please block me if he didn't want to hear from me but he won't. Why do you think that is?
We can never know what others do what they do. The only power we have is to choose our own actions consciously. True love is defined by what we let go of. There is hope for you. You will move on when you are ready to let go, not when he blocks you. And you will find others out there with whom you share a deep connection, romantic love even. There is no such thing as"the one." There are many, many people we can (and often do) fall in love with over the course of our lives. Sometimes that love will we returned to us, sometimes not. Sometimes relationships last, sometimes they don't. But either way, be glad you lived. Be glad you loved. If you know yourself and love yourself, you will find love again from others. Good luck to you. Be well.
Thank you, I agree with everything you said. I'm just very confused right now and it's hard for me to move on when he's all I think about.
It'll be okay, friend. I know. Hang in there, okay. In the words of a sage: IT GET MO BEDDA. :)