Cheating husband
I don’t know what to do? I know he’s been cheating for a few years but will not admit it and will not stop. He will not talk to me. He avoids me at home and does not sleep in our bed. We have not been intimate for almost one year. We have been together for 33 years. Please help
@sunnyDay661
Oh Goodness, you poor thing going through all this. Sounds like you need a break to think things though yourself.
is it possible for you to take this Break? Like from Work, him etc. Staying with a Friend/Family or at a Motel for a couple of days?
Or sneakily taking time off Work, and just relaxing at Home, (if Husband is away during the day) and going on Walks or Short Drives and sitting somewhere safe to think it all out.
Like what would happen if you Left.
How would you cope financially?
Would you have Support?
Would you be safe to leave?
is he going to leave you anyway?
Or can you stay, Forgive, get him to commit to change and work it out to stay together? (the toughest Question of all).
I don't want to put ideas in your Head, only to consider what your options are if you are so very unhappy about all this.
Hope this helped a little.
Whatever you do, don't fight him. My husband of 12yrs has been cheating for 3.5yrs. Last night I found pictures on his phone that are not appropriate for anything let alone a married man's phone. I smacked him. He smacked me back. He shoved me into the wall. I got arrested for domestic violence. Figure that out. Lol just trust me she's not worth it. NO relationship is. I know that now.
I'm here if you ever want to talk. Stay strong dear. 💪
i just found out yesterday morning that my husband have been talking to another girl for a year he saids. Just talk. We’ve been married for 12 yrs and 2 kids. He left. I don’t know what to do. He lied to me because I was suspicious and confronted him but he kept gaslighting me and saying that I was overthinking. I don’t know how serious they are. And I don’t want my family broken. When did you find out it was 3.5 yrs? So did you try to work it out? What was his reasons?