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Complex situation

User Profile: tealPlace4421
tealPlace4421 October 14th, 2022

I have a complex situation. I am not sure if there is a solution but I still want to try. I am a male who is been married for 20 years. It was an arranged marriage. I never felt any attraction or connection with my wife. It was always just an obligation or duty. I do have children. I have been in love with other woman for the past three years. It’s mutual. I don’t or can’t divorce my wife because of complex reasons ( children, our cultural settings, parents from both sides , finances etc ). But I really have deep love for this woman. I have never felt anything like this before. It’s been three years and my feelings have only intensified. How can be with her without divorcing my wife. What all options I have?


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User Profile: BodhisattvaKuato
BodhisattvaKuato October 14th, 2022

Are you allowed to have a mistress?

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham October 15th, 2022

@tealPlace4421,

do you want your life to be ruled by others?

Or do you want to be happy?

Get out. Divorce. None of the reasons you mention is a valid reason not to divorce. Stand up for you.

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham October 15th, 2022

@tealPlace4421,

do you want your life to be ruled by others?

Or do you want to be happy?

Get out. Divorce. None of the reasons you mention is a valid reason not to divorce. Stand up for you.