Contemplating Divorce
Once again I'm lying in bed beside my husband who thinks I'm crazy for not wanting to go to bed angry or kiss before we go to sleepy....we work nights and he blames everything on wanting to sleep while his body will let him but he never takes into account that this also affects how I sleep...but to be honest in our 5 years together it's pretty much always been about what he wants ....I do love him but the selfish behavior and one sided ness of this is exhausting....there is so much more I could say but maybe another time. If this sounds familiar to anyone please reach out.....I'm hurting and stuck
I feel like I can relate when it comes to one sided things. Many instances where I can say/felt that things with our relationship goes one sided which turns into a bicker/argument.. which goes to say I personally would like yo go to sleep soon after we lay our son down for bed but always ends up we have to go to bed at the same time because it's "fair" as she says we're both tired after working all day and then the routine grind from. The moment we walk into the house.
We always kiss goodnight before bed even mad we might kiss but not speak lol. Either way there is deeper things within our relationship that's made me consider divorce even with having a almost 11 month old. She's says I'm one sided when it comes to wanting to get things done around the house on a weekend but yet I get dragged into going to target, WM, bed & bath etc you name it and I end up having to rush or crunch to finish the house chores that I take care of which makes me feel like she's being selfish and just can't go alone.
Guess my point is try and discuss it (we sometimes resolve things) and they're good for a little bit but never hold it in even if you think you should just try and discuss it if need3d it's good to vent up here. I've debated talking to an actual therapist to help! Good luck here to listen if needed!
