Contemplating divorce
This has not been an easy decision, as you already know. I've been with my husband for 11 years, and we have three children. There's no communication, no matter how hard I fight for it. Because of this I no longer have romantic feelings for him. He's mostly aware of this, but the only attempt he's made to change it was to buy me something. We've had MAJOR issues with his drinking in the past and he's started drinking heavily again recently. I'm an emotional person so its difficult for me to hold back my feelings, but I have to when he's drunk. I think it's time for me to move on, not just for me, but for the kids as well. Please help with any advice that you have.
@MamaBear156
I wish you luck in all your next steps. Please reconnect with as many friends and family as you can. Keep your children's school and teachers informed of the changing family situation. Keep your doctor's office informed as well. Building a strong support network can make those steps ahead a little bit easier.
@MamaBear156 *virtual hugs* i know it's a tough time for you, but all of us are still here for you and we all love and support you. you're not alone. we wish you all the very best for the decision you take. * more hugs*