Deadweight
It hurts to see my ex having fun with his new group of friends - having adventures together and living a full life. Can't help but feel like I was the deadweight holding him back, and now that I'm gone, he's finally happy.
@forcefulPine2323 if thats the case, you can spend this time on self improvement or try hanging out with friends youre close with.
Would you be happier if he was completely miserable and dysfunctional without you post-breakup instead …? 😂
If he was someone that you genuinely cared about, shouldn’t you celebrate his happiness? More importantly - Why is it about HIM and HIS happiness? Why isn’t it about YOU, and what YOU need to be happy?
The things we focus on tends to influence the direction that we move towards. So focus on yourself and you will be closer to moving towards your own happiness.
CatsInTheCradle