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Do I still love her?

User Profile: cato
cato June 16th, 2020

So I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and 4 months and been long distance for nearly 2 years and for the last 6 months I've been feeling low thinking that our relationship isn't going anywhere she's always busy at work and we barely have time to talk, but there's no doubt I love her but the butterflies and that spark I was once felt isn't there anymore people told me that maybe I need to see her to feel those butterflies again and yesterday when I saw her after 6 months I wasn't excited to see her when I kissed her it was awkward I don't know what to do I know I love her and I want to marry her but I don't know why I feel so disconnected and down is it because of the distance or is it because I don't have feelings for her anymore.

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User Profile: helpfulPond3973
helpfulPond3973 June 23rd, 2020

@cato

Love isn't always butterflies and sparks, there are low levels. Its like a movie, but not in the way you think. Think about it like an action movie, there are always going to parts of a movie that aren't always packed with exciting parts. There are parts in between that need to move the plot along that don't have big fights or exposions, you know that sort of thing. Actually, that's why a lot of movies sometimes just skip time and move forward, stuff is still happening and the story is still moving forward to the happy ending.