Dumped A Few Days Ago...HELP?!
Ok, so my ex S.O ( Ben) and I had been limbo daing for 7 months, so we were together, but we werent, like we were a couple alone but around everyone else in our friend group/school (we are are in a tiny class of 11 people, we see each other every day and work side by side) we were not together.... Anyways, we had a blow out fight and I told him he wasnt trying, the limbo dating was killing me so he packed up and left, he damned I return his gifts and gave me everything I had given him, he deleted the apps we used to talk he moved around his desk, he refuses to look at me or talk to me at all. I have to see him everyday all day from 7am to 8pmbecause our program is super hardcore....he hates me, he wont talk to me, or look at me...somehow he got all our "friends"(classmates) to side with him so not only does he ignore me but everyone hangs with him and I am left alone.....I love him though and I want the best so I might leave the school since everyone says its my fault.... Help?
Hi, I am sorry about your breakup and I know what you are going through. First off your sadness and sorry for being veryscientific about this is due to ahormoneit's something that we also experience ondrugs oralcohol. Think of it as a high and now your coming off it. Secondly, I know this is gonna hurt and I'm sorry but he didn't want to claim you as his. That must hurts - he acted like your boyfriend but didn't want the title. That must have hurt you. And what's worse he plays victim by getting your friend to go against you. Now I ask you this is the man you want back? I'm sure you had some great times but it's in times of sadness and hardship we see people's true personalities come out. & this was his. Take your respectability back and stand up for yourself. He doesn't want to talk to you great! He put others against you great. Now you see their true colours and not who they pretend to be. Stay strong.
Great response.
