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Ended a relationship?

User Profile: mayelizin
mayelizin September 21st

I ended a 1 year old relationship yesterday.Things ended from my side only.I was having a lot of stress in my personal life when this  relationship started feeling overwhelming to me .The guy was loving and loyal and seemed to be innocent but I lost the will to put efforts after a while.When I talked about taking a break of 2 Weeks he was absolutely reluctant because he believed it wud permanently get him out of my mind.But the 2  weeks wer an absolute relief tho he kept msging in between asking me to come back.After countless attempts to end this ship I finally sternly told my decision yesterday.He is calling my reasons absolutely baseless and is crying asking me to get back.All his frnds and family are judging me for leaving him.But I am not feeling like giving in so easily and I left.But he last msged me saying he still wants me back ,to give him a chance and that he wud keep me happy,he cannot forget me or imagine a girl in my place.

Did it actually end?what shud I do now?

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User Profile: QuietCompass
QuietCompass September 21st

@mayelizin Hey, I can relate to your situation. It takes courage to understand what works for you and really figure out what's best for you and for your partner in the future! For the questions you have asked, Did it actually end, what Should I do, this is really based on your context. I have gone through a similar situation but it might not be the same as yours. All of us have our own stories in life. The answer most of the time sits with you.