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Ended before it could even start

User Profile: Neens91
Neens91 June 7th, 2021

I felt like I met the perfect guy for me. He accepted me for who I am and we had alot in common. The only this is that he is currently in another country. Me got to know each other from a dating app. Intense chatting. He perused me. Saying sweet words and made me feel like I could open up and be with him. He brought a plane ticket to come and see me in August. Last month he said that he had lost the initial spark that he felt, and that it being long distance is hard for him. We tried to talk it out. But in the end he just said he couldn't do it. And doesn't want to lie and lead me on. I feel so crushed. He said I'm the right girl just were at the wrong time. He could've been everything I ever wanted. And now it's all over.

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User Profile: mathetmess
mathetmess June 8th, 2021

@Neens91

I understand how it hurts, and that is natural. It seems maybe if you head down this path that it was likely to only get worse from this point, so maybe you escaped more pain down the road before it happened.

For now, I am glad you are here and sharing. There are people who will listen to you, and who will keep you company during these difficult times. I promise.

For the next steps, I know it's difficult, but please remember there is no perfect one. There are many that are good for you, and good for you in different ways. I believe in you. You are not alone. Please keep reaching out and sharing.