Ex is now with someone else. Need help to get that out of my mind!
I experienced a breakup six months ago. I have never really been able to get closure because he was not open to a discussion. I just learned that my ex is now in a relationship. I can't accept it and I always imagine him with her, with their happiness all over! How can I take that off my head?
@ultraviolet02.i am so sorry!! Going through same. I cannot stop my mind from doing the same...why is that? Its awful... I keep thinking of him w someone else and it's making me physically sick. I know the hurt will eventually get better..but it's just so difficult now. Most of my friends r happily married and bust w family....so noone really understands what I am going through.
Have u talked to your x? How long were u tog?
@Lovetennis
Thank you for your warm message, I feel all your empathy. And I totally understand what you live too ... you're not alone...What a difficult time we are going through! My friends are also in relationships with children. They are a very good ear but can not fully understand ... I have been with him for almost 6 years. It was me that initiated the breakup because I felt he was detached but he explained to me that it was his illness (chronic fatigue syndrome) but I felt that it was more than that. Subsequently, I kept the doors open, because he told me that he wanted to get better before talking to me ... I waited, waited, waited for 3 months and then, when I proposed a meeting, he told me he had met someone. ..I feel so dumb and I think he was cowardly!
And you, what is your story? Feel free to write to me, I think we can share a lot...
In the similar situation. But I am still in good terms with my ex. And I don't know how to hide this feeling in front of her.
