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Feel like giving up

July 13th, 2016

Together 19 yrs. 4 months ago found out he was cheating tried to work it out. 2 months ago got in argument left with kids next day locks were changed. Went to lawyer to find out we r common law married. 3 weeks ago he comes back wanting to fix us n our family I could c the difference. 1 week ago this other girl tells him she's pregnant n keeping it. He begged me to stay by his side. I asked him to tell her I would be by his side he did not a good time. Told him I'm done then. I know he's the one I want I just can't cope with it all I have cried daily for months. I'm ready to say forget the whole court stuff n try to jus move on. I'm at a loss for words n my family is judgemental..help me

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TheSleech July 14th, 2016

@Emma5863

User Profile: TheSleech
TheSleech July 14th, 2016

@Emma5863

User Profile: TheSleech
TheSleech July 14th, 2016

Hi @Emma5863. That's a tough situation. I'm not sure how i would cope in your shoes. It must be really painful. I'll suggest a couple of things for you to take or leave as seems best to you. Focus on yourself and on the kids for now. Have you friends in your corner? Allow them to help. Stay healthy. Sometimes, it takes some time for the right path forward to appear.