Finally fed up!
I have a boyfriend that has been very active on social media and dating sites. He assured me that his actions were innocent and just for entertainment nothing else. A few days ago, I found out he slept with one of these women from those sites and have been communicating with her constantly since March/April. I learned through msgs, while I was at work, they were supposed to meet up and have sex again. So I confronted him, he didn't sent it, nor did he apologize. He walks around our home like it didn't even matter, while I'm torn in two. I'm unable to talk to him, look at him, and I get nauseous at the fact of ever sleeping with him again. I really feel like I want him to leave, but I have to think about the 4 babies we have together. Don't know what to do.
@Leej1977
I think you're understandably 'fed up' for good reason! It sounds like you have been through alot through the course of the relationship especially as you mentioned you have children with this man.
Do you think his behaviour could change? If not, can you accept it? What are your options?
Lisa
@OceanCounselling, he has taken some steps by deleting this woman from his Facebook page and messenger to try and prove to me that he loves me. But I have a feeling they're still communicating somehow. I mean this is a woman who knows that he has a girlfriend but still is enameled with him, purely lust. My options are to stay, forgive, and try and make our family work, or leave, forgive, and try and raise our kids peacefully.
@Leej1977
Ah that sounds so complicated and heartbreaking for you. It sounds like you're in a very unsettling space which is causing you I bet lots of insecurities too!! What are the benefits/disadvantages of both situations for you?
