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Finished a relationship today.

User Profile: Sunflower71
Sunflower71 June 22nd, 2015

Two years to the waste.

We had so much problem since we started. He has depression and schizophrenia, he started the treatment for me.

Mom and dad doesn't love him. They say he will kill me and etc... So this made in us some changes...

He finished being obsessed with his hate about my mom. We never were happy during a date. In these last days Ifelt our relationship was about problems and sex.

So.. I got tired. I won't continuea relationship with so much problems.

Maybe it's time to focus in my life and be happy alone.

I wanted to cry, but now I feel fine. Like more relaxed.

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User Profile: rozie
rozie June 22nd, 2015

Hello@andreievich sorry to hear how much you have been through in these two years. You say "two years to the waste," but reading on, it seems that you have learned through this that relationships with problems are not what you want for yourself. I think your decision to take time for yourself and to be happy alone is very positive. It is said that if we are okay as an individual then we are more likely to be okay in a relationship. So be encouraged and enjoy this season.

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User Profile: Sunflower71
Sunflower71 OP June 22nd, 2015

He's a nice guy, but I can't continue with him. In the last days I felt so unloved, not being cared, full of problems... Who wants that? Nobody.

I will search a man (or a girl, who knows) with less problems next time. But now I will enjoy the rest of the year.

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User Profile: helpfuldot
helpfuldot June 22nd, 2015

Sorry to hear that you're going through that. I hope that your next relationship may be a little better for you.

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User Profile: Sunflower71
Sunflower71 OP June 23rd, 2015

Someday, but not today. I will enjoy my life first.

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User Profile: AnIris4you
AnIris4you June 25th, 2015

Andreievich I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I wanted to write to you in hopes that I can help in some way. I know how hard it is to leave a relationship where you feel that it is draining and going nowhere. I want you to know that it is perfectly alright to want to move on from that, because in order to take care of ourselves we have to let go of the people that constantly put us down. Surround yourself with people who support you and bring light to your life and it will get better.

I wish you the best.

User Profile: powerfulBlueberry2913
powerfulBlueberry2913 June 25th, 2015

The fact that you had the ability to walk away is great. That means you value yourself.