Floored by ex marrying so quickly
He left me only two months ago and they were already making plans to be together. But whenever I asked he said there was nobody else involved and blamed everything on me. He still tried to be physical in the two months afterward, whilst we had to live together. He also said he still loved me. But I had to find all this out from pictures of them on Facebook. I lost my home, had to leave my job and it's really hard to see the future. I'm 27 and feel way too wary for my age. He is the only person I've ever trusted completely. But he manipulated everything. It feels like my world has completely shattered.
I am so very sorry about everything that happened. I really do believe that in the worst abuse and trauma, the one thing that gets taken away from us is the ability to love and trust. I do hope that you haven't totally lost those things or, if you have, you are open to the process of rebuilding those abilities.
I am a big believer in Karma. I have learned that you do get what you give in this world. He may end up with a wealth of material items in this world and another girl on his arm, but I doubt he will ever again have someone he can trust 100% and that loves him unconditionally. I say this because, from what you have provided, it seems he may very well may lack the ability or desire to provide love and the integrity that builds trust.
I may be an overly glass is half full type of guy, but if you are still alive, standing, and able to see the sun, embrace what you have; well, I think that you then, at 27, dodged a big bullet. I the case of my Aunt, she didn't discover how untrustworthy her husband was until much later. I think because you are 27 and not 57, you have been blessed with the opportunity to move forward with eyes wide open for what's really important to you, trust and integrity, oh, and love as well.
Again, very sorry you got hurt and I do hope that you can move forward. Feel free to chat with me or anyone if you need to process or vent some more. Take care!
My husband left me on Christmas Eve he's been back and forth with me since but last week I found out he's on online dating it crushed me I have not been the same. I understand your pain and confusing
Yeah, I know that feeling."Oh no, there's nobody else". Insulting to the intelligence, really. If they dumped you, why the hell do they care if you know about the other women??? My ex still does this and we are divorced!