Found out bf uses prostitutes
i just found out that my bf likes to use prostitutes. Trying to keep it together for now for the kids and family sake. Dont know how to confront him yet as for im trying to make up my mind first whether i want to work things out or plan an exit strategy...
@dapperPear7300
Did you find out because someone told you or did you see it?
Either way just be straight forward really, tell him you found out and tell him what you want to do(if you want to break up, work on it, whateaver it is).
Try to talk to him when children are not at home or at sleep.
@Booklover95
i found out myself. Seen messages that he forgot to erase I guess. Thought to check browser history and was even more shocked to see evidence that this wasnt the 1st time. Not sure how often but once is too much to handle already. Its hard to confront him right now because Im trying to figure out where I really stand with him and this relationship as it was complicated from earlier on. I just feel really betrayed and disgusted. Dont know how or understand how he could be living this double life... I moved over here with him to be closer to his family so Im away from all my family and friends. I dont know how to reach out to any family or friends Im not sure why...maybe Im feeling embarrassed? I dont know but I need to let it out to someone and am grateful for this platform
@dapperPear7300
You don't have to be embarassed at all. Wasn't your fault, it was him who cheated and nothing can justify it.
Just be honest with yourself and with your family, tell them you're in a time where you need help. I'm sure if they love you they'll help you out.
Specially since is such a hard situation.
