Getting over an ex
Hi guys.
I feel like I'm about to crazy. 10 years ago I dated a guy who I cared about a lot. I love him so much I thought that it was going to last. It didn't. Both of us recently got married to other people and basically we moved on for 10 years.
However, on Saturday I ran into him and we talked for a couple of minutes. I got obsessed about him and I'm feeling betrayed. I can't stop thinking if he is feeling the same or if our meeting meant nothing to him. We haven't talked since that day and I am not capable of having an affair even if I had the chance because I love my husband so much and I am not willing to risk my marriage for my ex.
I need some advice on how to stop thinking about him. I have no one to talk about this and I really need to get over it and move on. Probably I won't see him again in the next 10 years anyway.
Thanks!
@bestSquare9824
Imagine if your husband was doing that to you...you'd feel hurt. If it didn't work out it...I won't in the future or ever. You say you risk your marriage for your ex then think about all the reasons why you fell I love with your husband... Be content with what you have 😊 think about your man...go on more date nights. Out of sight out of mind. Best of luck!
@bestSquare9824
If you feel this strongly about it then you probably still have feelings for this guy. But that's ok, you can't simply forget or erase those feelings easily. I would suggest like the other person said, focus on your husband, remember why you didn't get along with your ex in the first place. You probably focusing on the good memories instead of the bad ones.
