Getting over the lies. How do you trust again
How do you open yourself up again when you trusted someone who lied about so much? I mean almost everything. After we broke up I found out that he lied about being in the navy, about his other accomplishments, I wonder if he was really separated from his wife.. it seems like every where I turn I uncover something new and I was the one who was always getting accused of dishonesty.
He was always trying to make me feel insecure as well which didn't work but as I look back I could scream at what I tolerated and believed. I feel so dumb.
I'm much more peaceful with him gone but i wonder if I will ever be able to trust someone again.
@quietSea4506
I'm so sorry you had to go round and round on that roller coaster. I have been there! You did not deserve that, and it's sad that because of someone elses actions we will have to go through the process of repairing ourselves to be able to trust again, but YES it is possible. I'd suggest giving yourself time to heal from that, concentrate on YOU for awhile <3 There are many people that won't lie to you <3 <3
@wonderousHeart14 thank you for the encouragement!!
@quietSea4506
Hey anytime 💟💟💟💟💟
@quietSea4506 I am in a very similar situation. It has been about 8 months since I broke up with him and it feels like I am still damaged goods, unable to open up to anyone again. Every time I meet someone I really like, I end up getting cold feet and pushing them away. I think in time, it will get easier and easier to trust again, but I am not pressuring myself too much to feel better. Just living in the moment. But yes, I feel that in time we will all heal and be able to trust the right person. xo
