Gf left me and then started talking to ex
Just got dumped by gf bc she said she wanted to work on herself. Were together almost a year. Been bad for several months. Stopped communicating with me and being intimate with me. Tried to get her to talk to a psychiatrist bc she said she has mental health issues. I did everything I could. Offered to go to couples therapy, help around house. Help with bills. And she just shut down. Last month she said she felt single, but wouldn't talk to me about her feelings. Less than a week after she chose to leave me she started talking to her ex again who emotional abused her. Controlled what she wore, her friends, where she went, talked to. It was terrible and how she's been spending time with her and talking to her again. I'm physically in pain bc I can't believe she would even talk to her again after she knew how bad it was.
I'm not sure if I say something that will actually help or comfort you. But know that you deserve a certain love. A love that doesn't leave you in constant doubt or uncertainty. You are worth a lot. Love yourself through this difficult situation. 🌺
I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through this . I’m going through a similar situation . My boyfriend literally broke up with me yesterday and is already talking to a girl who he only has relations with every now and then
Yeah it definitely sucks. Especially when you know they will just get hurt again b that person will treat them the same. And I know that I deserve more, it's just hard when she was amazing at first when she tries but when she stopped trying it just led to her pushing me more and more away until she left me.
And I said something about her talking to her ex and wondering why she would even do that she got upset and defensive and blocked me. The part of me that lives her still wants to comfort her and be there but I know I can't.
