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User Profile: affableLemon4629
affableLemon4629 March 14th, 2021

Hi, I'm 22. I knew this girl for 7 years and we dated for 2. I loved her. She was my first girlfriend. She was seeing 3 other guys behind my back. When i found out I broke up with her. Now I'm alone and i feel terrible. I don't know how im ever gonna be able to let this go. I never thought someone i knew for so many years would betray me this badly. I hate this world so much :(

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User Profile: Maggie07
Maggie07 March 14th, 2021

Hey, I’m only 13 and I know I can’t offer much to help you, but your going to be ok. Focus on the light at the end of the tunnel. It’s ok to cry and let your emotions out but don’t dwell on it. Everyone recovers at different speeds. That would be awful, and I’m sure it destroyed your trust for others as well. A motto I have is to not let a bad apple ruin the batch. Keep your chin up and your going to get through this! ♥️

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User Profile: affableLemon4629
affableLemon4629 OP March 14th, 2021

Thank you. Great advice. You're young but very well spoken.

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User Profile: lhudson21
lhudson21 March 15th, 2021

You’re not alone! I’ve had bad break ups where I had to move on. It’s not easy. What I did was look at his faults and the bad things about him. My ex wanted to argue with my friends about politics and I didn’t like that at all. He was very mean to me near the end and I was sick of it. Dumping him was the hardest thing I had to do, but I see how much my life had gotten better without him. I even met someone BETTER. After a while instead of being sad, you tend to get mad. Then you don’t feel mad anymore once you move on. Idk if this helped but just know you aren’t alone! I wish you happiness, my friend!

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User Profile: affableLemon4629
affableLemon4629 OP March 15th, 2021

Thank you. Feels good to know im not the only one with a bad breakup. I hope one day i can trust somebody again.

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User Profile: lhudson21
lhudson21 March 15th, 2021

You will, I promise! You just need to find the right person. It’ll happen when you least expect it!

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