Have you ever got cut off completely? Please share..
I am a female, 27. He is 33. We have been in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years. We have met 3 times.
Recently he cut me off because i did not want to obey him anymore (long story). My point is, how do I stay sane after being cut off. He blocked me in every way.
If you have been/are being in similar situations, please share.
I do not want to feel pain anymore..
@The100 All I can say is that it will be hard...but only for a period of time. It never feels good to get cut off especially by someone you care about. It will suck, but try to keep yourself busy. Find something that you love doing and just do it. Whether its a sports activity, reading a book, watching a movie, do whatever you need to focus on YOU. It wont be easy but it will get better.
@HelpByJazzy88 thank you. I have already started working on that but oh whenever i let my thought wander about him i break down so hard and everything seems like hell to me. I appreciate your reply thank you so much.
@The100 I know how you feel I dealt with a situation similar and it just sucks. You will cry and break down, that's okay. But remember, YOU don't deserve that sort of treatment. If someone is willing to easily cut you off and not look back, then that is their loss. Even though it sucks, you have to look at the bigger picture. Books was my way of coping with the situation. Find your muse. I hope that helps!
@HelpByJazzy88 your message does help a lot. I truly appreciate you taking time to reply. I will find my muse 
@The100 He did you a favor. I will not ask you for more of your story but it sounded like it was an unhealthy relationship, right now to the end. I understand it hurts (and that's okay!) but it's better this way.
@ReadBooksDrinkTea I guess I was unhealthy toward him too :( it has been such a struggle for both of is as he has suffered from Bipolar disorder.
@The100
i can relate you the hurt inside me has not erase away , as i do have many happy memories with but he doesn't want me to think over it again...mine is a long story too honestly he's not the man for me from the beginning 😢 ~~~~(>_<)~~~~ 😢
@jazmine1986 oh :'( yeah not everyone we love is made to stay with us. I am sorry for what you are going through. I am sending my hug to you.
I have. Not with anyone in a romantic sense, but quite a few times with very close friends. Especially a guy friend I met at a national music conference. We became really really close despite living on opposite sides of the country. We called all the time, talked about everything; we were best friends. But out of no where, and saying it had nothing to do with me, my friend said he had to leave. We were best friends for 5 months and those were some of the best times of my life despite never getting to see him in person. I missed him like heck and I still do whenever I get reminded of him. It was super hard to move on, but I eventually did. It
@The100
See hard part of life is that we can't stop anyone going away .It May be this boyfriend or hubby or relative. People come and go. It always very tough to get back into routine when we are so habitual spending and thinking most of time about that person. It will take time. Accept the fact he is gone. Spending time thinking what went wrong ..and all. No mean. Remember and be grateful you for the opportunity to feel love and good time spend with someone special. Who is written by fate will come at right time and own way. So don't close your heart door.get up dress up smart .. improve yourself where we feel to change our self. Move on. It memory of past never go. So don't try to forgive just try to come and let it go. Let don't allow to stay long and give you deep low feeling. Hope it help. Take care.
