Heartbroken
Yes I am the girl all the ladies hate....I cheated on my spouse with someone who is also married. My relationship with this person has almost been two years, I know I shouldnt be sad. I did this to myself. I hate to think of myself has a home wrecker, I am so much more than that. But I fell, hard. I am absolutely in love with the person I am having an affair with. We have had a lot of ups and downs, both our spouses found out and he has now changed. He professes his love for me but says we cant be together right now. Im hurt and feeling so stupid.
@Tucker2015 My boyfriend and I were similar to you. We got together after I filed for divorce and he filed it a little bit after we started. He was tormented in the divorce process, cause he has three kids. We are now both divorced.
we eventually moved in to my house and were committed and oh so so happy. His youngest son moved in, everything changed. I was not adjusting right, but I think I came a long way... a few bad fights and disagreements later, fast forward.. we are now at the verge of him moving out. I wanted him to stay but we did some damages to each other.
it is possible to have an opportunity with your true love, despite how it started.... even though I'm very sad now.
