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He left me for my best friend

User Profile: ineedalotofhelp
ineedalotofhelp June 23rd, 2016

He left me for her and I still love him is it wrong that I still want to be with him?

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User Profile: Oyster
Oyster June 23rd, 2016

@ineedalotofhelp Oh wow, that sounds painful. I'm sorry you're going through that. It's totally normal to feel like you still want to be with him. I'm just a message away if you want to talk. :)

User Profile: Serife
Serife June 23rd, 2016

@ineedalotofhelp

I think You need to forget.. If he loves you, he already can not go another girl.. it is very misery but true.. please become accustomed to this situation. Life, laugh and go on..

why did I say so?sad ...because I experinced the same thing... all I need is to forget and start again...

you know...your life..your decision dear heart I just propose one thing... please forgive me for my words..

we love you...you are not alone :* thanks..

take care..

best regards for you heart

User Profile: ShadowedXHunted
ShadowedXHunted June 23rd, 2016

@ineedalotofhelp Love is love. You can't control your feelings however it may be a good idea to move forward to prevent yourself from getting hurt any further. I suggest seeing a listener or therapy to further elaborate on the issue.

User Profile: Marinazaimi
Marinazaimi June 23rd, 2016

@ineedalotofhelp I've been there, I totally understand! You just have to know that what you are feeling is normal
I call them "toxic" people
You know they are bad for you, but you still want them in a way...

My advice is, distance your self from those people and that drama, find out who you really are, what you really deserve, and then you will understnd that even though you wont be over him, understanding that he;s not good for you its the firt step

AND, there are amazing guys out there who will worship you..I know its hard to believe it at first but it is true!
Treat yourself! This is all about you, babe! it os not about him or her
this is your jorney! Better things are coming, keep your eyes open