He left me for not having an abortion
Was married for 4 years, it ended this November after finding out Im pregnant. He asked me to have an aboortion. But I told him I want to keep the baby so he left me and said he want nothing to do with the baby or me and he will never admit this baby is his and he will treat me as an enemy. It kills me watching him now in a relationship happy and posting in social media. When Im pregnant and alone. I only think of harming him and tell the world what he did to me. Our marriage was a secret and no body knows from society only our close family. He is very famous is social media and I wish I can tell what he did but I dont want to harm him. Im in very bad depression and unbearable suffering and pain.
@Meno1 you did the right thing by not letting him force you into an abortion against your wishes. Revenge won't make you feel any better, maybe for a day or two but it won't change your situation. Think of YOU and your baby from now on. Think of the joy that is growing inside of you. That's your family. That's your lifeline. With or without a man, nothing can take the love away from your baby.
Start planning a future for the two of you. That's what is important now. You can do it :)
@bubbles1990 thank you for the message. I started therapy and I pray at the end I do whats right for my baby and me. I cant deny the baby his fathers name just because I protect the father. And the father family and new girlfriend will all know about this. But its all in the right time. Because I decided to protect my self and my baby from now on no matter how much is the harm. Im not letting my baby pay for it.
@Meno1 you sound like you know exactly what you need to do and I wish you all the luck and health for you and your baby!
@bubbles1990 thank you so much. Means a lot to me this support.
@Meno1 I'm so sorry that happened. He had no right to make that demand of you and it's awful he just left you like that.
It's up to you on how you want to proceed but I don't think there's any "right" or "wrong" choice whether you choose to pursue child support/acknowledgement or whether you decide you don't want you or the child to have anything to do with him, etc. I wish you the best in moving forward.
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thank you so much for your message. In our society its very important to have a child with the father name and family. Our society dont allow it other wise. When the time comes Ill have to go to authorities to get my babys right of the fathers name. Other than that Im financially in a very good place. I want nothing from the father.