Help! Break up!
HI, can anyone shed some light or help when dealing with a break up especially when its been a narcissist who was the ex. help needed and welcomed. Thank you xx
Well I can only give you the advice that Ihave been told. Just stay away from this person he/she is no longer a part or your life, keep it that way or else he or she will do a few things: 1. Try to get you back 2. Try to have a child and 3. Go back to gaining narssissitic joy as they watch you struggle. Work on yourself if thats what you are into. Be single, appreciate your health and experience life in the here and now.
Hi, Thanks for your quick response. I wouldnt go back with him. Its been 4 months and I broke up with him and the sad part is 3 days later he was in another country with another women. He lives with her now and is talking of engagement! JUst hurts so much that he has discardedme as though i meant nothing, 4 years completely gone if that makes sense.
Nine years with my ex husband (since 12) and he married two months after my divorce. He joined the military after one week of him saying it when I was 17 and left the next week. My now ex bf still lives with me and im possibly pregnant. And have no family and a history of child abuse. I lived my life depressed. Haha oh well. Tell them suckers they suck and just move right along.
And my ex bf had me thinking I was crazy with his narcissistic bs. Your ex is going to miss you regardless of what he says and does. He probably just found someone more passive than you... in which case you should feel bad for her and let yourself be mad at him not sad. Always better to be mad than sad. He was a dick. Just see him as he was. My inspiration to move when I can even if I am pregnant is a picture I took of myself crying because I was so sad he still livedwith me and had sex with me but had no problem taking women out and sleeping over at their houses and coming home to me for sex. Anyway, that picture says I all. I deserve better and he wants me to stay. But I need to go.
I feel for you I really do. I thibk you need to leave and look after yourself. As said previously already, I cant imagine what your going through but I think the picture part is a really smart move and it seems to help you with all of this slightly. Its interesting that you say my ex will miss me as i have been told they dont love or miss anyone. I would graitfyknowing that he did just to help with my shattered confidence right now.
oh and you absolutley deserve better!!!!!! That i cannot stress enough!!! I really hope you get to move and get on with your life pregnantor not. Yes my ex cheated on me and we broke up yet stupidly got back together and then I finished it 2 years later, in hope he would sort himself out yet foolishly he obviously had this other woman all lined up ready! I wish i didnt fell sad as Im generally a strong women but I need someone to tell me straight that he was no good. I never knew he was a narcissist until I spoke with his ex! scary huh!
My god.I am so sorry to hear all that you have been through. I cannot imagine how you cope day after day. Sending you a hug (even though I dont know you) . I appreciate that doesnt help in the slightest, but just know that I hope things do get better for you