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User Profile: determinedTown3209
determinedTown3209 June 8th, 2020

I just got broken up with yesterday. We were together for a long time and I love him with everything I have. He wanted to have more freedom and be able to go out with his guy friends and drink and just have fun without the commitment of a girlfriend even though we've been together for over a year and a half. I really don't know how to get past this pain and I know everyone says time heals all but I just can't stop crying or being hurt or wanting to text him. How do I stop myself from talking to him?

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User Profile: RealTree3
RealTree3 June 8th, 2020

@determinedTown3209

what I did was join a small bible study group. They gave me much support and it helped

User Profile: CrowSpectre
CrowSpectre June 9th, 2020

@determinedTown3209

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A seed, it only grows when it gets buried under the ground. It is a fairly common anecdote that people give for support and courage. But do you know about plants, miss. There are plants that give fruit or vegetable under the ground and there are plants that give the same, above the ground. The plants that are grown for their roots, meaning for their produce below ground, have bitter shoots which is the part that is above ground. And the plant that has bitter roots, has sweet shoots. Roots apply for past, or the inside, that is hidden and below ground. And shoots refer to the present or the outside, that the eye can see. During harvest, a plant that is grown for roots, is uprooted and taken out from the ground while the roots are cut away and the produce is gathered. While a plant that is grown for shoot, is sometimes picked or sometimes cut down, but it is never uprooted and it stays there, always. It grows again and gives its fruit for another season, while root plant is replanted from new roots again and then uprooted next season again and again. You are a shoot plant, miss. You have bitter past and inside but you are sweet and God has gifted you with many generous gifts to help others and give, that is the reason for your sacrifices. You have had bitter experiences but you selected to learn from them.

Do you know that when plants and forests stand in peacefulness then sometimes a storm comes and destroys the forests or fields. Sometimes predator insects attack fields and everything is destroyed and there is no hoppe left. But look closely, miss, there is so much life out of this improper destruction. The insects carry the pollen with them, even the predators, and then cause the plants to grow in other places as well, where there were no such plants. Exotic plants are sometimes carried by storms over oceans, their pollen are carried by the strong wind currents and they land in distant continents and are directly responsible for exotic vegetation there. There is even life in this chaos, miss, and if God can carry these miniscule pollen over oceans safely and land them in new places and help them grow a new heaven there, then have faith that God will not leave you alone. We humans, with all our talks and ego and pride, are still nothing. We talk and work so much to do this and that, to earn food, clothes and a shelter. We always worry so much about these things and think that it is our duty and responsibility to do that. But it really is not in our hands, miss, it is Gods will. We humans can never give any clothes to ourselves as beautiful as the clothes that God has given to a flower. We cannot even create a single blade of grass out of noting or artificially and God is giving these glorious clothes to plants for so long even before our existence, miss. We cannot feed our own selves sometimes and God still gives food to a tiniest ant that is walking under the shadow of a mountain in the night, miss, and with all out technology and intelligence we cannot even see that ant let alone provide it with anything but God does and gives food to that ant, every single day, miss. If a parent, no matter how cruel and heartless, cannot and will not give stones to their children to eat, then how can God leave you alone in the hour of your need, good miss.

Another thing about this pollen transfer, there was once a farmer who won pumpkin competition every year in America and he gave his seeds to his neighbours as well. He was asked that why does he helps his neighbours when they are his competitors and he said that he grows his pumpkins with love and care, but if his neighbours pumpkins were of bad quality then the cross fertilization by wind and insects will damage his produce as well so he gives them his own seeds to protect his garden, and the quality of his pumpkin is only determined by his love and care which is in his own hands.

God bless you, miss, and grant you peace, happiness, richness and kindness of life, always

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User Profile: determinedTown3209
determinedTown3209 OP June 9th, 2020

@CrowSpectre

Thank for this. It really helped me realize my self-worth

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User Profile: CrowSpectre
CrowSpectre June 9th, 2020

@determinedTown3209

God bless you, kind miss, always

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