Help
How do I get over the fact that my husband cheated on me. I dont know how to start.
If it were me, I would try to take time for myself first and take baby steps to healing. Getting the mind on something you love to do should also help. I'm so sorry this has happened to you! :(
Also, when getting to a point of healing then forgiveness steps in.
This was very recent and everyday It hurts knowing that he loved someone close to both of us.
@navyTurtle6791,
cheating does not mean that he loved someone else.
I understand that you are hurt and devastated. There can be a zillion reasons, or no reasons at all, why he cheated. But do not automatically go like many people go "you loved someone else".
Take some time off with your self. No meaning, avoid him, or ignore. But put up some clear boundaries and allow yourself to have "alone" time. One day at a time.
