Help with confronting
My wife and I have been together 11 years and have a 5 year old son. I found out about a week ago she has a guy saved in her phone with a girls name, I only know this because there was a picture of him. I didn't think anything of it at first, but then she started using my old mobile and didn't log out of my Google account, any way I went on Google photos on my phone and there's videos of him and pictures of her on there where they have saved on her phone and backed up to the Google photos. How do I tell her I know what's going on without ruining Christmas for my son?
@Dandarko
Well, I could be a bit hearless (and truthful) and say that really it's not a problem of your making, but I do get that the feelings of your son must take priority for you.
I'm answering because no-one else has, and I don't like to see you left hanging. But tbh I have no idea whatsoever of what I would do in these circumstances (except wonder where it went wrong for both of us).
There's never a good time, but, yes, this is a bad time.