He want a divorce
We've been married for 10 years. And about 2 months ago, he had a new job. But after that he changed. He always late. He barely have time for me. When I tried to confront him, he say something about separation and divorce. I tried to apologize and figuring out what mistake did I do, that makes him change. He won't explain to me.
And today I accidentally found out that he google how to apply a divorce papers online. I'm so shocked.
I still love him, I still care for him.
What should I do ??
@MeylieInMay
I'm so sorry...I can hear the pain in your words. You did nothing wrong, don't blame yourself. Talk to him and let him know how upsetting this is for you. You deserve peace.
I'm already talked to him. Tell him that I'm very sorry if I made any mistake. And also I tell him about what I feel lately. But all I got is silence. He didn't say anything.
@MeylieInMay,
my wife is like that. She does not respond. That does not mean she did not listen. He might be processing, contemplating, understanding you. I don't know your husband, you do. You know how he communicates. PS you have done nothing wrong, don't apologize. Express your feelings, just how you feel, not what he does or doesn't to make you feel the way you do. Propose to do marriage counseling. Ask him to treat you as the wife he fell in love with, loving, kind, gentle and open and honest.
Warmth and love to you, and to your husband
