Hi...I really don't know what to do with my ex :(
Me and my ex had been together for 2.5 y ears..but during our relationship ,we were fighting all the time. So we decided to break up (mutually)
I know he loves me and I love him too even though we broke up
The thing is that he has moved on and got a new girlfriend since March. We were not talking for about 4 months.
We are chatting now on a daily basis..He said he wants me but he won't take the risk of dating me again because he is sure that our fights will destroy our relationship and that we will hate (eventually) each other. What can I do guys? I really want him. No matter how hard I tried,he still thinks that we can't be together..:(
@EternalTimewalkwer
That's really unfair. I'm very sorry but all I can say is move on.
It's not healthy for you. He has a new life now while here you are, thinking about him and not progressing with your own life.
Tell me, do you really love him? How come? How can you love someone else while you cannot even love yourself.
Focus on your own life. Before you even knew him, you've lived without him. Reach your goals. I'm sure you have a thing or two.
There's a reason why people chose to leave other people. Don't be a "choice" of somebody who's in need of something and will eventually dump you when he / she is finished.
hey guys? do u have any idea how to search for a specific listener.I seem to have lost him :(
@sympathecOwl5532 Search him from the Browse Listeners section which is in your chat section 
I know you are right and thank you guys from the bottom of my heart for listening to me! But it's easy to say..I just can't forget him that easily..I can't even think of myself with another guy..
@EternalTimewalkwer
Yes it is easy to say. I UNDERSTAND that all too well. But think about this: while you were hurting and recovering from the break up...he was going on with his life. Remember that there will be someone one day that will try to make it work. That won't leave you or stop wanting to be with you. He will still be there fight to be with you. Loving you for you, when you want to give up he will be there telling you he can't leave you because you are his life. Remember that you are special. That now if you went back to him it would be somewhat like a slap in your face because if he wanted to work it out he would have come to you and try. Not go on and sleep with someone else.
@EternalTimewalkwer
This will not be nice- Get a grip, get a life and get a therapist. It's harsh, yet true. I know the pain of divorce all to well, but I refuse to let my ex H rob me of a chance of happiness in the future. I don't know your age, but none of us are getting younger. Don't let your exH take your future away too. I also suggest getting in touch with your spirituality. Watching or listening to pastors TD Jakes, Joel Osteen and Ron Carpenter helped me thru many a dark times then and now whenever the pain or sense of loss sneaks up on me.
