How can I get over it
Just break up with my long distance boyfriend.We have been keep the relationship for three years.At first we can’t meet because Covid and because we are in two different countries.
Finally he got the visa and ever since then I am so excited to meet him.
But everything changed since he asked me to book his ticket from his country to mine.I don’t know why I should pay the flight ticket.And he refused to explain.I refused to do it and he got so angry and told me not to contact him anymore.
I am sad.I don’t know what to do bc I really want to meet him.But I am sad that he said it.We didn’t talk for a few days.Then he started texting me with awful words.Cursing .name calling and blaming all the problems on me. I am literally shaking when I saw what he send to me.
Today he called me and he told me that I am the person who has problem.He visit me and I have to make all the arrangements.He accused me play games all the time and said I am the worst woman he ever met.then he hang up and blocked me.
I literally shaking my lips when I heard words like that came from his mouth.We knew each other for 6years and I can’t believe it.
I supported him almost 30k dollars since he said Covid time not easy to find things to do.And he didn’t pay me back.
I am just sad .why I am so sincere with him and he treat me like ***.I don’t know how to get over it
My heart breaks for you to read that situation! Definitely he has behaved in a horrendous fashion. I think he has shown his true colours and revealed what the relationship was about for him - it was only about what you can do for him this whole time and what he can extract out of you! The moment you told him “no” he completely disrespected you and treated you like an enemy .. that is not how someone would have behaved if they genuinely wanted to be with you and were sincerely interested in a future with you.
I’m so sorry you have to go through all of this. Wishing you every strength to cope with this difficult time!
CatsInTheCradle
Hi Bright,
You probably thinking about this but he is such huge red flag. Consider yourself lucky that he wasn’t able to fly to you. He seems like he is using you. Cut all communications with him.