How long do you wait when you hurt his family?

I can't believe plane my situation but I've tried talking to people on here, but I ended up doing something the end up hurting his family and turned hurting him and that was a reason why we broke up and I'm not allowed at his house anymore or anything of the sorts but we've been hanging out and talking again still acting the same like we do around each other aside from on our bad days like when things are affecting us.

But, how long do you think I should wait, or what else do I do? Should I make the first move, romantically? Because my situation happened back in June and September now how long should I wait to start trying to rekindle things and making moves because I've already made it clear that I want to get back together and you just said we'll see how things go.