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How to handle the pain

User Profile: N1986
N1986 December 1st, 2021

Today i broke up with my boyfriend, i love him so much but he wasn't treating me the way i deserve so eventually i couldn't bare anymore neglect or indifference so i left... But my heart is so aching and i can't stop this pain

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User Profile: halcyonCloud2036
halcyonCloud2036 December 1st, 2021

@N1986

I just want to tell you that I absolutely LOVE that you recognize that he is not treating you the way you deserve and you are not going to tolerate it.

I know it hurts right now, but you are on a path to self-discovery and finding a guy who treats you like a queen! Sometimes we keep getting hurt by someone until we finally have the strength to walk away. I admire you for starting that walk....don't look back, brighter days are ahead. Sending you big hugs and tons of positive vibes for continued strength and peace.

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User Profile: N1986
N1986 OP December 1st, 2021

Thanks a lot!!! It really helps to hear support like this, I know i have a long way toward healing but I'll try to keep going and believe there is a better tomorrow.

I had many moments where i wanted to reach him out but i kept reminding myself of the reason why i left and i don't need to accept any less for myself.

Thanks a lot again, you're words did really give me more power.. Big hugs back to you dear ❤️

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User Profile: raspberryCity4862
raspberryCity4862 December 3rd, 2021

I needed to hear all of this because im in the same situation and wanting and needing to leave. Im scared to be alone but I know its whats best for me. You both have beautiful souls and i feel your heartbreak!! Literally in my toes!!

User Profile: greenAvocado14
greenAvocado14 January 3rd, 2022

I’m in the same situation. Every day is still hard. Been less than 2 weeks. When will it get easier? I just want to forget and move on.

User Profile: coconutstorm2433
coconutstorm2433 January 3rd, 2022

I am kind of in the same situation. I feel like my husband is not treating me right I was about to tell him that I wanted to leave. It's just really hard because we have three children. He basically begged if we can move past it and I told him that we need to go to marriage counseling and that's the only way we can move past it. There's just so much resentment.

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User Profile: lisa51mps0n
lisa51mps0n January 4th, 2022

Same here. Wondering if it’s best for children to stay or leave. It’s hard

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